A guy does NOT define me....rant.

[CountryWolf07]

Ignore her.

And, for the record.. You're adorable! I can't believe your brother would let her do that - disrespectful.

[Lilith Cherry]

My husband and I both think you are extremely pretty! Certainly having a man does not define who you are or how you look - we are with you too! She is lacking self-esteem if she thinks that way!

[sumbirdy]

I knew people here would be with me!

And to set the record straight....my brother did defend me.

I just can't believe some people think this way. Sometimes it's shocking the way other people's minds work.

Poor girl....I think she's truly confused about how things work. Your looks come from God and your parents, not your SO. And you should be able to find true happiness within.

[joycenalex]

your heart and your actions define you as a human and as a woman. temporary "possession" of another's attention means nothing. i feel very sorry for someone who was raised in the tradition that another can define your worth and value. country wolf is right, ignore this, and wait her time with your brother out....what can she bring to a healthy relationship?

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Hehe, I am NOT single, but I must say she is so much wrong!!
And, you are NOT ugly, you are even a very beautiful young girl!! You have gorgeous blue eyes and look very pretty to me!!

[beeniesmom]

What a bunch of crap!
She is the ugly one for saying that. What a loser.
Great way to make an entrance in a family. Yeah, let's offend my boyfriends sister. Not very smart is she?

You are adorable. Don't listen to her.
Any guy would be lucky.

I totally agree with joycenalex's comment.

[Medusa]

She's young. If not in years, then in mind and maturity. Forgive her and let it go. She may come back to you one day and admit how wrong she was. But even if she doesn't, you know better.

[kuhio98]

Poor girl....I think she's truly confused about how things work. Your looks come from God and your parents, not your SO. And you should be able to find true happiness within.

I feel sorry for her if she truly needs validation from other people to feel good about herself.

She sounds very young. Hopefully, she'll get more confidence and grow out of this. Otherwise, she'll be one of those people that glom onto anyone who will pay them attention (and possibly abuse them) because they'd rather be with someone -- and miserable, than be alone.

If she ever tells you you're ugly again, suggest she book an eye exam!

[Catty1]

Originally posted by kuhio98:

If she ever tells you you're ugly again, suggest she book an eye exam!

Or at least a decent brain scan.