Thanks, Karen:

Even as an independent operator, I could go back with the 'main' company. But I would want to be more independent, using the vehicle of my choice.

I think I know what to do - I am just PLAIN SCARED.

As for the date thing...I feel almost guilty about meeting guy #2 because of guy #1. But - I'm not committed yet, either way.

My cats will be the key! LOL

thanks again