Dear You Know Who,

I don't know why I'm thinking of you - probably because of reading some of these other posts.
I hope you're doing well, but I'm sure that you are. I hope you are happy with "her", and she's all that you thought. You always had to be the "fixer", and she played "needing to be fixed", very well. You were attracted to her because of this - her three bad marriages, a phony suicide attempt, and a lot of other baggage - you fell in to it hook, line and sinker. And what we had for almost five years - all the fun and travel and good times - went down the drain. I didn't need fixing since I was independent and had my head screwed on straight. Perhaps if I had played the clingy, needy, can't live without you type, the relationship would have had a different outcome. I'll never know now. But that's not what I'm all about - I can't live a lie and pretend to be something I'm not.
Would I take you back if your relationship with her ended? No way! I was devastated when we parted, and would never let you hurt me again. Do I hate you? Of course not, but I would never be able to trust you again. I have moved on and learned from what we had. It was a great ride while it lasted!