Greetings beautiful Tao and a very happy Cat of the Day to you! I can see from your photo that just as your Mom says, you are quite the demure and retiring type! (Except when it comes to food, of course!) You're also quite the beauty; one of my most beloved kitties, Chessa, was a stunning Calico just like you! I'm so happy for your Mom that she had you there by her side to help her during her time of grief, after having lost your beloved predecessor! Nothing like the unconditional love of a furkid to help heal the heart and return a smile to our faces! But at 8 years young I'd hardly consider you elderly! More like a middle-aged beauty just hitting her stride! Hope you're enjoying a very peaceful, happy, love filled day celebrating your much deserved honor with your family, sweetheart! They are truly blessed to have you in their lives! Hugs and little kisses to you, beautiful Tao!