I appreciate everyone's choice in this matter.

If I had a child, I am sure I would allow it in bed with me from time to time, but on any given night, it would be put to bed it it's own bed and room. I have friends who have allowed their children to sleep with them - and I don't think they have done the children any favors. Not to mention that parents' not getting quailty sleep. I think everyone needs their space - kids, parents etc. Everyone!

I can remember wanting to crawl in to bed with my Mom (parent's had twin beds) and from time to time, she would allow it. I never lasted long because I wasn't comfortable! There wasn't much room!

I vote for sleeping in one's own bed!