Lara, thank you for letting us know about the day and time(thanks Ellie for putting it into East Coast time). I will put the candle(it will burn for 24 hours) out around 5p our time. A communicator once told me that as our pet is transition to the Bridge, the candle light helps them find the way. I think it would be so great if we all put a candle out for Barney...just a thought... Ellie, I think lighting your lighthouse will be a lovely sight!!!