I'm really sorry.

[chocolatepuppy]

Here's hoping for a much better New Year for you Kay. Don't be too hard on yourself, with the year you had it takes time to get back to your old self or to the new person you will be. {{{hugs}}}

[Karen]

Sending you big hugs, don't stress about it, okay?

And remember, you can put PetTalk.com on 'em, as we now own that name and it redirects to Pet Talk!

Be glad you are at least in Florida, sweetie - I just checked and the temperature right now is 9 degrees, but it "feels like -14!"

[Catty1]

Kay - {{{{hugs}}}}

You're human, you've been hurt badly, and you are healing (though it may not feel like it, you are).

[Medusa]

Yes, we do all lose people but some things hit us harder than others. I think that we sometimes put too much emphasis on "getting over it" and we need to take time to heal at our own pace. No, it isn't good to "live there" but we do need time to work through our emotions and see where we go from here. I, for one, didn't give the calendar a thought. Take care of you.

[lvpets2002]

((( Huggss Kay ))) dont beat yourself up ok.. Its fine Kay & just think we have all Year to see them..

[Hellow]

Dont worry, we aint gonna eat you! Eventually you will get better, that is for sure. Yes everyone loses people in their life, but everyone moruns in their own way, and this is your way. Hope you get to feeling better soon!

[phesina]

Dear Kay, as I said in my PM, please take whatever time you need to mourn your losses. That pain doesn't go away overnight.

After all, the calendar will be just as delightful whenever it arrives.. It's the pictures, not the dates, that make it special!

Deepest sympathy to you and your family, and apologies also if my post about the calendars in Cat General added to your distress.

And big {{{{{{{{{{HUGS KAY}}}}}}}}}} and warm wishes to you. May 2009 be much better!

Pat