Just for a reference on Bokah and selective focus effects...

Here's a pix I took of Bear in the heated cat bed when I got my 50mm F1.8 lens last year for Christmas. No computer magic causing the selective focus and background blur, that's how the pix really looks at F/1.8.



It does go up to F/22 so your pix don't all have to look like that if you don't want.