But, but... bug loves me unconditionally... i sit when she wants to be petted, i snuggle when she wants a hug, i feed her when she gives me that look of "food or cat." , i take her shopping when she piles all her toys up and pouts, i play 101 and 102 dalmations for her on rainy saturdays, i throw the ball (again ans again) when it is presented to me, and for this i know she loves me....or i am the obedient slave to a dog that has me totally wrapped around her little paw. It is normal to surrender the pillow and covers to the dog at night, isn't it?