OMG, I just saw this. Prayers coming strong that Andy will pull through. There is no room for guilt. Please, these things are accidents, and you can only look forward. I am so sorry your husband is being so difficult. At a time like this, it is the last thing you need.

Pat1066, I am so very sorry to read this happened to you to. I know your heart must still bear the wounds, and to come forward and offer your story now, to help Katie, is really so remarkable.