Bullish Bulldog

**jukejackie** · 11-08-2008, 09:23 AM

Good Morning,
what is NILIF? I love the idea of making the dogs "wait", how would you go about it? When I am walking them, I make them "wait" before we cross a street and point out the cars, funny thing, the 2 Bichon's seem to understand (not to say they wouldn't run in front of a car) however Annie seems to have no thoughts about it. I think she's alot smarter then I sometimes give her credit for. The best thing about her personality is she makes me "gut" laugh everyday, she is so full of antics!!! If she were in a one-dog household I would have no complaints about her, she is sweet as anything, loving and has a need to be right by your side........problem........so do Pippin and Frodo! lol

none of my dogs have crates. I started with crate training when we got them, each as a puppy. They were released from the crates (to be honest, I didn't have room for 3 crates in the house) when they got potty trained. Annie is very scared of so many things, I don't know if I could get her in a crate, I think she would bolt, no matter how long it sat there with food in it. Perhaps I will look for a crate at Goodwill and see how it goes with her. Would that make her protective of her crate if the other 2 dogs got near it? Sorry for so many questions, I am so afraid I won't be able to control my dogs. thanks again for all your time,
Jackie

**Karen** · 11-08-2008, 09:26 AM

NILIF is Nothing In Life Is Free. Do a search for it in this forum and you'll find several threads on it - it's a training method that teaches dogs that you are in charge and helps keep order without squabbling!

**Giselle** · 11-08-2008, 08:12 PM

I included the NILIF link in my first post, but I guess the URL didn't quite work. Here it is again: http://k9deb.com/nilif.htm

Teaching "Wait": For this example, I'll assume the dogs are outside and you're trying to let them in.
1) Open the door just a little bit. Most likely, the dogs will butt their noses through and try to clamor their way inside
2) Immediately close the door.
3) Open the door just enough to excite them again. If they're clamoring to get in again, close the door. Repeat this enough until the dogs understand that butting through the door means that the door will close on them. At this point, when you open the door just a tiny bit, they'll control themselves and wait.
4) Open the door a little wider. If they try to clamor in again, immediately close the door. Repeat repeat repeat. With enough repetitions, the dogs will control themselves and wait even if you open the door WIDE open. At this point, say "Okay!" and let them inside.

Once the dogs start showing self control, you can include the verbal cue "Wait". Voila, the behavior is taught. You should also use this for the front door, the car door, any gates, etc.

You know, your question about crate guarding has a lot of merit, especially if Annie is the only one with the crate. In all honesty, if Annie is the possessive type, she could become possessive of her crate. But the reason I use it so much with Ivy (my bully dog) is because I can lock her in it and it provides a safe haven for her, which means that my other two dogs are safe, too. It's a bit of a paradox. If you don't give them separate sleeping areas, Annie will probably bully the other two for their beds. If you do give them separate sleeping areas, there's a chance Annie may become possessive of "her" space. My three have their designated spots and it works well for us. If your pups have a "system" that works well with their beds, keep it. If not, consider spreading their areas out and see how it works for you. I'm sorry I can't give a clearer answer, but it is a bit "you're screwed if you do, you're screwed if you don't"