it´s hard... and painful... but necesary.. as you said in order to "move on"... but this only means a way of accepting it as you´ll never ever move on from their love and their memories.. they will always be there with you... and that´s so good, but to do so we need to realize they are no longer with us and accept it so we can cherish those moments and not be sad all the time... those moments are the ones that should make you smile everytime you think of them.. and maybe shed a tear, but a tear of happiness by remembering those happy times. and why not a sad tear for their departure..

I´m sorry for both your losses... and I´m sure that as sad as you are Hank will lick off those sad tears for you and help make them happy tears... as I´ve read you said he has a few Anna/Rosie manerisms...