What is he howling for?? Please help...

[krazyaboutkatz]

I have this problem with my 8 year old cat Sunny but it's because he wants one of the other cats to play with him. He's been howling in the early morning hours or late at night. He'll get a toy and sit in the hall way and start howling and howling hoping that one of his siblings will come play with him. It's been driving me nuts. They ignore him and I have to go out and throw his toy mouse and tell him to be quiet.

It does sound like your cat wants a cat companion. Maybe you should try adopting another cat and hopefully his howling problem will stop. Good luck.

[Emeraldgreen]

We adopted a cat a year ago named Paddy and he seems to be very happy here but he too yowls on the deck multiple times a day. He doesn't seem upset when he's doing it and I think he's calling for other cats. A few times our only outdoor cat has come to the screen door of the deck when he does this and otherwise they are never together because she doesn't like him. But I think he's calling her when he does it.
My guess is that Bobby is calling the other male as you said and might be looking for a friend. That would be so cool if you could slowly befriend this other cat and maybe adopt him too. Are you able to offer him some food? He might be less scared if he knows that he can get food from you.

[stormiebaby]

I am almost sure it is a companion problem now. He is just like in with this other cat I am going to try and tame him a little (the stray cat) If anyone has any advice on taming a stray cat i would very much appreciate it. The stray is in such a bad way... he has a limp and part of his tail is wonky so i would really like to tame him enough to get him to go to the vets.

Thanks for all your help.

[mruffruff]

MY method for taming a stray cat:

Make a note of the time of day the stray shows up. Put food out in time for his arrival.

Sit near the food, but not so far that the cat is afraid to eat. Start far away (10 feet) and sit absolutely still while the cat eats. Don't move even if a bug bites.

If the cat eats, sit closer by a foot each day. If he acts afraid or won't eat, back up.

If the cat comes up to you or you are within reach, very, very slowly extend your hand.

Judge the cat by his reactions to you. Some cats will let you pet them in a day or two. Others will take a lot longer.

One of my porch cats has been coming to dinner since January third of this year. Last week he let me pet him and now comes for attention every morning and evening. He still won't come inside with the rest of the cats to eat. (I prop my front door open and feed 5 strays in my living room every night. They feel safe if the door is open. A couple have explored the rest of the house). Of course I haven't been working on it steadily.

A humane trap will work, too. But I would recommend that you keep him in a large cage inside for a while if you decide to go that route. He will get used to your sounds and smells.

Good luck. It sounds like this little guy needs some help. Let us know how you do.

[largeheartedgirl]

My male cat Neko (who is neutered) will holler if he smells another cat who has sprayed. We visited my mother once, and he found a place where my sister's cat had sprayed in her house (she didn't know it). He caterwauled the rest of the time we were at her house and for a couple of days after we got home.

Shortly after we moved last year, Neko got out of the apartment and into a common hallway area where a neighbor's cat, who allowed to wander outside during the day, had sprayed. We scooped Neko up and brought him back in, but he hollered again for a couple of days after that. He would also get out of sorts whenever that cat felt the need to mark the hallway (thanks neighbor!) and holler for a couple of days.

Chances are, even if your cat is neutered, his friend outside is not. That may be why he's howling -- it's his natural reaction to cat smells called pheromones. Mruffruff gives good advice for how to get a feral cat to warm up to you. Most of all, be patient. And when you earn his trust, get him vetted. You don't want him getting your cat sick with something.

It's good that your parents are willing to invest in this health and take in another cat as well. Good luck and keep us posted.