I have just now been able to catch up and read this thread, I am so sorry to hear that Pidge is so sick.
I know it is hard for you having to deal with this after losing Puddy so recently and it sounds like your vet should be a little more sympathetic to your situation.
I know it is hard to see an older pet's heath decline, I hope you still have some time left with Pidge.
Sending hugs and prayers your way.
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