I got one of my statements yesterday and I didn't want to open it.. I asked my daughter to open it and look at it and just say "Oh Mama, it don't look that bad!".. She wouldn't do it so I opened it myself.. That was just one of my retirement funds.. I have NOT and will NOT look at my 401K when it comes in.. I was hoping to retire in about 3 years... now I reckon I will work until I am 90!