Jenn:

when asked a spur of the moment type of question, has that "deer in headlights" look about them as well
You saw my first post, when J said that I looked at them "like we are from Mars".

That's what happens when you work with academics! LOL They live in the country with very little traffic, and there ARE lots of deer...but never in the headlights...I guess Mars works better for them?