I don't know how you can do it!

When my mom was doing a lot of BS & bad things to me.. I took it for many years, but one day I had enough & she hasn't seen or heard from me since (2003). I live in a city that she can never visit & never find me. Only 2 family members have my address & 3 have my phone #. If anyone wants to contact me or send me something, they have to go through my sister. They can try to look up my government information, but it all points to my sisters house.. No bills in my name are linked to where I live. They all point 300km away, so I'm quite safe.

My sister doesn't know my reasons, but she respects them, as she sees me as a much happier person without mom, & I don't rant on how much I hate it... I rarely ever mention her. Most people assume shes dead as I only talk about my dad & sister.

Dad calls me nearly everyday, & far too often he calls me many many many times a day... But I love him

My mom is ill & dying or something (don't care). She tried to bribe me to visit with money. I said no. I might be homeless (last summer), poor, & worse, but I don't need her. & I told my sister to stop passing me that sort of news. talk about other things

One thing I've learned, is that sometimes I have to come first.