Update on Puddy; she's gone*9/29* see post #421

[jazzcat]

Just heading out to spend the day with my Dad and wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and Puddy. Lots of (((HUGS)))

[Donnaj4962]

Aww, Mary. I wish I could just give you a great big hug! (Puddy, too!)

I know that you are sad, and that you only want to do what's best for Puddy. You will know what is right and when.

God Bless you. I will continue to pray for you and Puddy and all of your other furposse.

(((hugs))))

[Catty1]

{{{{hugs}}}}...Whatever happens, Mary, know that you have done and are doing everything you can for dear Puddy.

I hope for her sake as well as yours that the med starts working in the next few days. I think you said you were starting the 10 days all over again?

It might take til 12 or 13 before you notice any change...I know it is SO hard to be patient, but Puddy deserves every chance and you are giving her that.

[zippy-kat]

{{hugs}}

You are always so supportive in your responses. I wish that I had eloquent words to instantly comfort you. Regardless, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

You will do right by Miss Puddy. I know it's a heart break either way but you will do right by your girl. And we will support you in your decision(s).

{{hugs}}

[sasvermont]

Mary, the one thing we CAN do for our pets, when it is time, is to allow them to leave this world in a rather comfortable state. We cannot do that for humans. If it is her time, and only you and Puddy know that, then allow her to have peace. She doesn't sound happy to me. I could be wrong.

Anyway Mary, we will all support your decision. You have my nod to allow Puddy to be at peace with her illnesses. We are all going to go.... it may be her time.....

(((((((((((((((((Mary)))))))))))))))

[shais_mom]

I too like the other have nothing to say that will take the pain away. A magic pill that heals them either.
You are so caring and sweet to everyone, I'm so sorry you are going thru this.
You will do what is right for you and Puddy.
you are very strong.
I wish you luck and lots of hugs and love in your decision.

[carole]

Mary part of loving her is knowing when to let her go in peace and you will know, you really will,i realize how heartbreaking this is for you and i feel your pain, it is around the corner for me too, take comfort in knowing what a wonderful meowmie you have been to puddy and you know you are amongst friends who care for you and understand 100 per cent, giant gentle hugs to you both, and hang in there Puddy girl,if you can.

Mary i just wanted to add something, what helps me with my Ash is knowing that he has had a really good life, i know i have given him the best care, love i possibly can, it does not make it any easier, and when his time comes i will be heartbroken as you are,but it helps me deal with it, i know i am not there yet, but i am preparing myself for the inevitable, don't be so hard on yourself and remember just what a great kitty mum you have been to her and what a great life she has had, that is all any kitty can ever ask for, again i am thinking of you, and sending you hugs and love.,and i hope this can bring you some comfort at a time that is unbearable for you.

Mary it was my mother who made me think this way, sometimes i would discuss with her how i cannot bear the thought of either my mum or dad leaving me on earth, and she would always say to me, remember we are elderly and we have had a good life, keep that thought in your mind when the time comes, so i have adapted that way of thinking with my Ash, i hope you can with Puddy.