OH Mary, I'm sitting here at work with tears streaming down my face. I feel helpless and want to reach out and give you a geat big {{{hug}}}. You know, we all want to do as much as we can for our babies but we also need to take care of ourselves and our mental and physical health. If you are not alright, how can you take care of others??? Listen to me, that's the #1 rule I need to learn but it really is true.

None of us can give you the right answer, only you and dear Puddy can come to the right conclusion. In the meantime I'm sending lots of prayers to you and I'm asking God to wrap His arms around you and give you the strength to get through this, whatever the outcome is.

I've said it before and I'll say it again. You are stronger than I will ever be.

slick