Oh Lori, I'm so sorry that this continues to happen. I just went through this with but it was not as bad as your situation. I don't know if your open to using an animal communicator but I work with a real good one. She does consultations over the phone. I used her when I was worried about Gracie and having her eye removed. She told me things that only Jan (QueenScoopsALot) and I knew about them. PM me if you are interested.