Ginger has gone on to a new home.

**sasvermont** · 09-01-2008, 09:14 AM

I am an advocate of "rehoming" - for sure. Animals, if treated nicely, will thrive under what we think may be trying circumstances. Although there will be adjustments, most pets get with the program easily. It is a responsible thing to do.

After seven months, I am sure you know if it is working or not.

I am so glad you found a good home for her and will be able to keep up with her progress. The fact that she has a friend to play with 24/7 is a real plus.

Good job.

**Rachel** · 09-01-2008, 09:29 AM

I'm agree with the others. You have made a difficult decision yet in the end I do believe that Ginger will be much better off in her new home. Sometimes in our enthusiasm to have a dog, we don't consider all the ramifications of our situation and their temperment and needs. I speak from experience. I made that type of mistake more than once as a young adult. Actually you have done an excellent job in rectifying what turned out to be a mistake. In the end, Ginger has probably ended up better off with all that has transpired than if you never had her in the first place. You've done a good job in finding her a good home. That is the most important thing. You don't have to regret your decision.

**Alysser** · 09-01-2008, 11:00 AM

I'm sorry about Ginger, but overall I think you made the right decision. I have no doubt that she was very happy with you in the past 7 months. I don't really see a problem with rehoming a dog unless the person gets one right after or they dump it at a shelter. You found a great home for her, there is no need to feel bad about it.

You can still visit her, can't you? I think it was for best. I wish Ginger good luck in her new home.

**Taz_Zoee** · 09-01-2008, 02:24 PM

I agree with everyone that you made the right decision. After all, you gave it your best for 7 months. Some people do not give that much of a chance. I know it is heartbreaking for you, but at least you will get to see her. And hopefully we will too. And Betty Boop is such a cutie, I'd love to see more of her.

**Freedom** · 09-01-2008, 03:30 PM

I can't say anything not already said. So ditto all the above.

Shais Mom wrote:
"goldens are high energy puppies - that are puppies for awhile."

Bear is a Golden here in my neighborhood. His family got him at 14 weeks. They are still waiting for his puppy energy to subside. Bear will turn 7 in September!

His humom says he has smartened up a little

but slow down? Not that she has seen!

You made a tough decision, which was in Ginger's best interest. That is one of the hardest things for pet owners to do.

**buttercup132** · 09-01-2008, 05:05 PM

Not to sound harsh but I can't say this really suprises me, even though I'm not active from the threads I've read I didn't think it would last. It would have been pretty easy to fix this if you were just constant with her on your part.
I can't stress enough that people need to RESEARCH the breed before getting them.

Anyways I'm glad she's in a home that will understand her and her needs.

**Daisy and Delilah** · 09-01-2008, 05:15 PM

I have no criticism either, Missy. It's the right decision for you and your family. You're a very sensible, smart, lady and you know what needs to be done. Ginger will be happy I'm sure. There is no reason on earth for anybody to down you for this. I know it was a hard decision to make and I'm sorry. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

On another note: I've met many Goldens in my 57 years of life. Not one of them was identical to any other one. All Goldens are not alike, all Pitties are not alike, all Chis are not alike, etc. etc. etc.
A person can research until the cows come home and not know if the dog they bring home will be suitable for their particular situation. Bottom line; every dog is not always suitable for every person. Sometimes it just doesn't work out.
On a second note: There are two small children in this home. This is alot different than there being no children at all.
I'm pretty certain that there were many factors in making this decision. This dog has gone to a home that's better suited for her. What could be wrong with that?

buttercup: You're so sure that Missy could have done better.........do you know her pretty well? Your comments were totally uncalled for.

**AdoreMyDogs** · 09-01-2008, 08:04 PM

Originally Posted by buttercup132

Not to sound harsh but I can't say this really suprises me, even though I'm not active from the threads I've read I didn't think it would last. It would have been pretty easy to fix this if you were just constant with her on your part.
I can't stress enough that people need to RESEARCH the breed before getting them.

Anyways I'm glad she's in a home that will understand her and her needs.

I've met the dog several times, Missy has taken her to her training since she was a small pup. The dog is not only non-stop energy (sorry to step on any feet, Missy) but she also wanted to kill Missy's cat, Boomer. The prey drive was very serious and with two small children, that's not a risk she should have to take. I've seen lots of goldens in my time. I've seen some extremely active ones, I've done lots of training with my dogs, SAR/tracking/obedience/agility, and I've not run across a pup with this much energy in a long time. I also know that the extreme prey drive towards her cat is uncharactic of a golden. Every dog is different, but that is not a typical golden trait. Regardless of how much research goes into any breed, there are always "odd apples" out there that develop traits uncharacteristic of their breed. I've never seen a dog quite like Ginger, and never seen such a desire to kill a family housecat who was introduced immediately to Ginger as a small pup.

I would have done the same thing if I had a dog who went after my cats like Ginger did. It is not surprising Missy rehomed Ginger, it was responsible. What is surprising is that Ginger was so driven to kill Boomer.