I had my boys 1st bday at home too... but there were just adults as at that point he had no friends ...

are you having many kids over??... you could rent a small place... you might find them under party salons... party rentals... birthday.... not really sure how your yellow pages work but you can look on a web based yellow page and just tiçype party or birthday and it should show up rental places....

don´t stress too much.. I know 1st bdays are a big thing, to us, as the baby wonñt even notice but don´t stress too much... try to keep it simple and enjoy it