LOL, I am jumping around here-
I forgot to mention that the tenuous situation between my younger sis and bro are the result of him always blaming everything on her.

During the convo I had with sis about the bills I mentioned to her that we should wait and see before we blamed anything on anyone. I told her it might be mom's bills, a credit fraud or indeed, my younger sister.

She blew up at me and said that I was on D's side about this. My sisters aren't the best people on the planet but I'd like to afford them the benefit of a doubt. I have always tried to do that and I was roundly castigated for it.

At the gate when she came over I did make it a point to mention that the only things that her and my brother were interested in was the money and not mom's health. She didn't do jack to help out with the arrangements or gave me a call during the time she was on vacation.

I also mentioned that her vacations were more important that her mother was.

That sent her into a tizzy and she announced that she wasn't going to stand there and listen to me.........The truth has a way to make your knees buckle and head spin, no?

Ugh, i know that there are many more miles to travel on this road and know that I do have the patience to make it thru. It's the way that people act that supremely puzzles me.


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On the way home today I did smack my brother on the back of the head because he made a statement to me.

He said, 'We always have to do things your way because you are perfect!'

I told him that it was better than having to go back and do them again. I understand what we are all going thru at the moment. He's just as hurt and confused as everyone else...But, I just don't understand why I have to be everyone's punching bag....


LOL, I didn't mention my other brother and how he almost had an aneurysm because the hospital would not tell him about mom's transfer.

I can't be making phones calls to everyone about what they need to do or ask them for favors. They all have wives/husbands that screen the calls, think that they should have input or a say in what happend,

I welcome their help and guidance, but they figure that the few good things they did a few years ago should cover them from extending a helping hand today. So, that covers them on the road of good intentions.



I am holding auditions for a new family soon!