My mom is pretty sick.

[K9karen]

Richard, I'm so sorry to read about your mom.
*Sigh* All the women on my mom's side sound exactly like your mom and most of their illnesses could have been less dramatic if they practiced what they preached.

I got the brunt of caring for my parents and, now, a 90 year old aunt in a nursing home and her 95 y.o hubby who lives alone. But that's OK. You'll have no regrets. I like to say I'm the "good kid"

My prayers are with you.

[jennielynn1970]

I'm so sorry to hear about your mom, Richard. I hope the chemo won't be too hard on her, and that she'll be ok.

It would be really cool if you could take Ed to see her. I think a lot of long term care facilities do allow animals because they are such a boost to the spirits.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope mom will rebound and get better.

[ChrisH]

Oh, Richard, I am so sorry to hear your Mum is so ill. Prayers and positive thoughts on the way for you both.

[Barbara]

Richard I think what Phred said about the "Medical Power of Attorney" is very true. We had my mom sign one when she became so ill and we were very happy to have it later.
Plus: unfortunately it is normal that you experience the most conflict with your closest relatives when something like that happens. Try to play it as cool as possible. Don't waste energy on it- you'll need it for you and your mom.

[chocolatepuppy]

I'm sorry to hear about your mom Richard. My prayers go out to both of you.

[Ginger's Mom]

I am so sorry to hear that your mother and you are going through so much. More prayers are going out for both of you.

[Randi]

Richard, I'm so sorry to hear your mom is ill. I hope the treatment she gets will make her better! Parents can be so stubborn when it comes to going to hospital - I know first hand! Four days before John and I came back from a holiday in Spain, her doctor had told her she needed a blood transfusion, but she refused to get it before I was back.

Over that period, my sister wasn't much help, so I know there's a lot to deal with for you. I do hope you can count on your sister!

I don't know what Medical Power of Attorney is, but it's probably a good idea to get it signed.

I'm sending lots of positive thoughts to your mom - and to you. Hang in there, and do what you can!

(((hugs))) .... and headbumpies from Fister.

[robinh]

You and your mom are in my thoughts and prayers. Enjoy this time, you'll remember how close you become...later.

I did this back in 2001 with my dad. No matter how you think you've prepared, everything that hits you during this time is all such a shock. Just dealing with the mountains of paperwork is frightening.