Kim ~ I am so sorry about this. The stress on you and hubby must be horrible. If it all blows up -- and they make him an offer to just "go away" think about getting legal counsel. A lawyer could help make sure that a severence package includes a training/school stipend. If hubby is going to be starting a new career, they might as well help finance the schooling.

We have a family member who had a horrible time in the public school system. He is very femine and the faculty made his life miserable. He left the school system and is teaching at a private school. He loves it and they love him. If hubby still wants to teach, is that an option?