Britt, if you want, try something different when things don't work out right with your family. Do everything they say and ask. So if your mum says if you don't come in now blah blah blah, just say OK, and do it. Just try that for a week and see what sort of response you get. I think when something happens your parents react in a way that makes you react aggressively, and there is no way either party will be happy. I'm sure your parents aren't happy when this happens either. So try the opposite and see if you can find some middle ground there. Hope this helps.