hi mikkehla
thankyou for your reply, the thing with Samson is that he is excellent in the crate! doesnt make a noise!dosent chew his bed! and be in there for hours! just want the same thing with the house! I think you are right about him being a big puppy still i think his body and muscles are big and strong but him mind is still only a tiny puppy!i think he just needs time, i will try doing what you said about getting ready and try leavng him for short times.
i will let you all know how it gose!
thankyou for your time
rebecca and family!