I think unless they've met you in person, and actually know you, then whatever has been said just needs to be taken as such. I, for one, have only ever seen your posts on PT and PMd you a few times, so would never presume to even think such things about you and your family.

The fact that someone(s) actually googled your name, that's kind of creepy.

I hope you just walk away from what they've said. You know yourself and your family and what's gone on.

I'm so sorry that this is happening.