So very sorry to hear this. I know what you mean about not wanting to go see him. I didn't go see my Grandmaw for that very reason. Now he and your grandmother are reunited. I hope you can find some comfort in that. And remember, one fine day, we'll all be reunited

I just saw your note about his visit. I had a visit/dream from my grandmaw about the same thing! She was wearing a very vividly colored flower dress. I remember I told her that it looked much better than a hospital gown.