Sassy

[chocolatepuppy]

The pain will ease up Alyssa, in time. You will always miss her but you will be able to think of Sassy and talk about her and smile. It's really painful, I know. {{{hugs}}}

[Alysser]

It's been a month since she died today. A whole month. Where did time go?

[cloverfdx]

Alyssa, the pain does ease but it takes time & everyone is different {{Hug}}.

Sassy will always be a part of your life, and will be in your heart forever.

[Alysser]

It's been over six weeks since she left.

Should I feel guilty for not crying anymore?

[RockyRoad]

No, you shouldn`t feel guilty. As time goes on, Sassy wouldn`t have wanted you to cry whenever you thought about her. The happy memories you had with her will take the place of the sadness you feel, and soon not only will you not be crying, but you`ll be smiling. Thinking of all the times that Sassy would make you smile, and laugh. Sassy still can make you smile, Alyssa, except now you have to smile so much wider, so that she can see it from heaven.
{{{HUGS}}}

[chocolatepuppy]

It is ok that you aren't crying. You may have come to terms that Sassy is at the Rainbow Bridge. Believe me, there will be times, you will shed a tear or break out bawling about her and that's ok too. She's in a wonderful place and happy and healthy again. She wants you to go on, you'll see her down the road one day. Do you talk to her Alyssa? I always talk to Mandy, still over two years later. I will always believe she hears me. And do you talk about her? I'm sure you do.
The other day, making up Lacey's birthday thread and seeing Mandy's picture in my siggy, I broke down. Mandy and Lacey were buddies.
Hang in there hon. {hugs}

[Miss Z]

Aw Alyssa, I don't think you should feel guilty at all. Tears are not the only form of grief, they are just the most immediate. Sassy wouldn't want you to cry over her forever. You will always miss her, but you are moving on from the sadness and you've accepted that she's not gonna be around any more. It's not a bad thing at all. You're being strong and I'm really proud of you for it.

((hugs))

[Alysser]

I found Mr. Bear..he still smells like you. Thanks for making me cry all over again. I miss you so much.