Sassy

[petslover]

I am saddened to hear about Sassy. She was such a fun spirited pup who was loved by many, but especially by you.

[Alysser]

It's been three weeks today.

[jennielynn1970]

I'm so sorry to read about Sassy. I was just looking through the memorials and it's so heart wrenching to see all of these sweet animals that I loved seeing pictures of, now in Memorial.

I hope you are feeling some relief that Sassy is no longer in pain. She is playing and enjoying herself at the Bridge. It is so hard to say goodbye to our beloved pets... my thoughts and prayers go out to you during your grief. Know she is looking down on you and loves you for loving her. Big hugs to you during this time.

[Alysser]

Thank you all.

I have one question. WHEN does the pain go away? WHEN will I happily think about her? I can't stand the sense of loss anymore. I hate coming home to no Sassy. No silly quack barking, doggy odor, or a wagging tail. No giving her goodies anymore. She was such a huge part of my life. I just can't imagine completely moving on. Will I ever think about her happily again? Please make this sense of loss go away.

There are some days I'm completely fine, but others I want to loose it, knowing she's gone. I'm doing okay overall. But I miss her so much.

I still miss you babe. I wish you would just come home.

[chocolatepuppy]

The pain will ease up Alyssa, in time. You will always miss her but you will be able to think of Sassy and talk about her and smile. It's really painful, I know. {{{hugs}}}

[Alysser]

It's been a month since she died today. A whole month. Where did time go?

[cloverfdx]

Alyssa, the pain does ease but it takes time & everyone is different {{Hug}}.

Sassy will always be a part of your life, and will be in your heart forever.

[Alysser]

It's been over six weeks since she left.

Should I feel guilty for not crying anymore?

[RockyRoad]

No, you shouldn`t feel guilty. As time goes on, Sassy wouldn`t have wanted you to cry whenever you thought about her. The happy memories you had with her will take the place of the sadness you feel, and soon not only will you not be crying, but you`ll be smiling. Thinking of all the times that Sassy would make you smile, and laugh. Sassy still can make you smile, Alyssa, except now you have to smile so much wider, so that she can see it from heaven.
{{{HUGS}}}

[chocolatepuppy]

It is ok that you aren't crying. You may have come to terms that Sassy is at the Rainbow Bridge. Believe me, there will be times, you will shed a tear or break out bawling about her and that's ok too. She's in a wonderful place and happy and healthy again. She wants you to go on, you'll see her down the road one day. Do you talk to her Alyssa? I always talk to Mandy, still over two years later. I will always believe she hears me. And do you talk about her? I'm sure you do.
The other day, making up Lacey's birthday thread and seeing Mandy's picture in my siggy, I broke down. Mandy and Lacey were buddies.
Hang in there hon. {hugs}