She will still need you trust me! I have a 15 and 17 year old, they need rides to work, rides to the mall, rides to movies, money for movies! I force out a hug here and there still. They need me to say "no, you can't do that" even more than they ever needed me.

My two were so different sleep wise, my youngest would take herself to bed, my oldest I had to stay with her and sneak out quietly.