{{{{hugs}}}} I am SO sorry for your friend!

I hope she gets an answer to the 'why'...this topic came up in a different way on a recent thread...and though it is selfish in a sense, if someone has a mental illness like depression, you can get so dark and obsessed in your own head that the blinders are totally on. You can't think of anyone or anything else...just you and the black hole.

Sadly, many men don't ask for help, they want to "tough" it out.

{{{{hugs}}}}