Can Anyone Help Me? Im so sad

[GILL]

Welcome, I agree with Jen and Krazy. We have a room that we cane isolate new kids in. There is a 1-inch gap under the door. Paws and noses can go under, so every one gets too know the new smell with no intimidation. Some times it takes a long time for things too even out. Our female Main Coon would hiss and growl at anything that moved. After 5 months she is starting to learn it does no good and may even get her wet. It may take awhile but it sounds like there are no threats. I would keep the litter box, food, and water in her safe room. Too many changes just make things harder. Personally I DO NOT believe in using drugs if at all possible. I think that the best way is still patience and time.
Please let us know how things are going

[mruffruff]

Welcome!

I have to agree with the others. Keep her food and litter box in the room where she feels safe. It can take a long time for some cats to accept another cat or person.

I would also encourage you to e-mail her picture to Nancy Efrusy, a pet psychic. She can give you some idea of what Gabbie is feeling. When you know her side, you'll know how best to proceed. And Gabbie will know that you want her back.

E-mail Nancy at [email protected].