Alyssa - when we were deciding to have DNR on my sister two years ago, I read a bunch of stuff people had written who had been in a similar position...it was along the lines of 'have your feelings, but put them aside so you can put the other person's well-being first, and decide on that.'

So...make Sassy the centre of all attention and feelings again, and focus just on her - just like you always did, loving her so (I am sure she was just a tad spoiled? ). That will make it easier being with her at the end.

I have been through this, and it is peaceful, I pray that you all will find peace.

HUGE HUGS