I have realized that the problem with Bengal's ears is due to ear mites...he is scratching himself bloody every day. He occassionally lets me pet him, but I know that he isn't going to let me put drops in his ears. WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP HIM???? Does anybody have any ideas? I noticed yesterday too that his empty eye socket was kind of drippy with bloody mucous. I really want to try to get him to the vet (my sister offered to pay for it), but I can't just put a trap out because I could end up catching any one of about 8 different cats.