I think it's a matter of whatever your pattern and routine is w/each other. For ex.: my last boyfriend called me every day and expected me to do the same, even though I told him when we first met that I wasn't the type to expect a call every day and I wouldn't be calling him every day either. Once, after a day of motorcycle riding, he took me home and I thought that I'd do something nice by calling and leaving a message on his land line for him to come home to, a sweet message saying that I had a wonderful time, etc. It was a one time deal. Or so I thought. After that, he expected me to do that every time and, if I forgot or got busy w/the Fur Posse or whatever, he'd get his nose out of joint. He took a loving gesture on my part and turned it into an obligation. I'm not suggesting that this is what you're doing, just pointing out that everyone has their own expectations and routines. If you can agree on how often to call each other, etc. and stick to it, rather than one person having expectations and the other not being able or willing to live up to those expectations, then it'll all work out fine. (Have I totally confused you now?) LOL
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