Relationship advice?

[Cataholic]

I would tell you to relax. If there is an issue, I would think after 1.5 years, he would tell you. I would NOT go the route of 'you talk to your mom and sister but not me' for all the tea in China.

[CountryWolf07]

I don't plan on going on that route. I am just saying, isn't it inconsiderate, at least not replying back or even hopping on just to say hi.. that's all.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Wouldn't have hurt him to reply to you would it?

[CountryWolf07]

Wouldn't have hurt him to reply to you would it?

Is that a agreement? lol.. if it is, then that's what I mean from all this. Guess it's just a guy thing.

[Ginger's Mom]

I am also wondering if it could truely been time restraints. It is easier to call Mom or sis just to say I am coming home tomorrow, gotta go (and cut them off), than it is a girl friend whom you haven't seen for two weeks. Rather than get into a rushed conversation and perhaps hurting your feelings by cutting you off quickly, he sent you word that all was well, and he will have a long and meaningful conversation with you when he gets home.

[jackie]

I am also wondering if it could truely been time restraints. It is easier to call Mom or sis just to say I am coming home tomorrow, gotta go (and cut them off), than it is a girl friend whom you haven't seen for two weeks. Rather than get into a rushed conversation and perhaps hurting your feelings by cutting you off quickly, he sent you word that all was well, and he will have a long and meaningful conversation with you when he gets home.

Wise words there.

Don't sweat the small stuff.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Is that a agreement? lol.. if it is, then that's what I mean from all this. Guess it's just a guy thing.

Yes he was probably just being thoughtless - he will be really happy to see you

[MoonandBean]

Being a country music fan , you could play him the song "it matters to me" by Faith Hill and see what his reaction is. If he seems unaffected, maybe he's just not the right guy for you anymore. You'll be able to tell...

I wish you the best!

[Logan]

Is that a agreement? lol.. if it is, then that's what I mean from all this. Guess it's just a guy thing.

I don't think it is "just a guy thing", for what its worth. Not a good guy thing, anyway. Do you usually go more than a day without speaking to each other? If so, then I wouldn't worry about it. But with technology the way it is (text messaging, computers, etc), it does seem like he could have at least acknowledged your message, even if it was to say he was too busy to talk. Just my humble opinion!! Hope you get it all figured out.

[Rachel]

I'm the last person to offer relationship advice, but I keep picking up from you at various times what I interpret as some kind of *gut instinct* on your part that you don't want to listen to. I may be wrong on that, but if I'm not, all I can say is *trust your gut*.

[k9krazee]

I wouldn't stress about it too much. I think it might be as somebody else said, he just doesn't have the time to really talk and doesn't want to seem uninterested or rude by cutting you short. When you see him and know the whole story this whole thing will seem silly to you. Just wait it out, it'll all be okay