Should I have the dog put down?

[2xbitten]

When the dog bit me almost a month ago I told her to get her dog some training but she has still yet to do it. In addition some of the people that have been bitten, including my son, were not in her home at the time. So I am somewhat against her even keeping the dog because if she hasn't done it yet, she might never send the dog to training. In addition she has children of her own, although they have not been bitten.

[Karen]

Has the dog been reported to Animal Control? Usually dog bites have to be recorded in most places.

I would then not visit her at all. Maybe that will impress on her the importance of the situation.

[shepgirl]

I agree with you telling her you can't visit as long as the dog is there. If she's already been told to get the dog some training and hasn't done it, I don't expect she ever will. As for the husband, would he rather come home in the middle of a lawsuit because this dog has caused serious damage to some other child or person...so far they have been lucky nobody has sued them, their luck won't always hold up.
If I had to choose between my childrens' safety or a friendship, my kids would be my first priority and a true friend would understand this.

[Moesha]

Is the dog uptodate on its shots?

[Jessika]

IMO if one of my *true* friends had a dog with behavioral problems, they would take my advice to heart and do something about it and would NOT guilt me about any decision they CHOSE to make. Then again, all of my close friends are all wonderful, selfless people and if they had a problem dog like that they would seek my help and advice and they WOULD get training and they would completely understand why I could not visit them until the dog has been worked with, especially if I had a child around!!

If your friend doesn't want to be complaint, then that is her prerogative and her decision. But DO NOT feel bad about any decision SHE decides to make. This is not your decision. If you feel scared and/or threatened by this dog and she won't do anything about it then it's sad but in all honesty I would feel it be my duty to society (and the safety of everyone living around her and in the general public) to report her to animal control. Maybe that will give her a dose of reality and she will take it to training or something.

It's a shame her husband is in Iraq, and bless his heart for fighting for our freedom and our country, but that doesn't negate the fact that this dog *seemingly* hasn't been properly taken care of (yes, in my opinion basic training is a factor in properly caring for your dog) and she really needs to do something about it.

How does the dog behave around her?

EDIT: And as far as worrying about the husband being mad at you... let him. You are not forcing your friend to do anything. If she chooses to get training, good for her. If she chooses to have the dog put down then SHE chose to put the dog down, NOT you. Don't guilt yourself over this.

Just lay low, explain to her you simply can not be around, especially with your child, until she gets the dog some training or rehomes him with someone who can give him more time and training that he deserves.

Have her children been bit? That would terrify me, I missed that part at first... if the dog bit your child and other strangers, what makes her think the dog won't do some serious damage to her own children?

[pitc9]

If this is not the first time they've had a dog that's had to be put down for behavioral problems...it should be obvious to them that they need to take a step back and learn how to raise a dog. The saddest thing about it that the dog and the dogs in the past will or already have paid with their life for the lack of discipline and absence of training their owners have failed to provide them with.

From what you've said... I can only assume the bites have not been too serious. Your friend needs to realize that all it would take is one bite with the wrong person and she can be sued and could lose everything, not just the dog!!

Find names of animal behaviorist in her area, and HAND them to her. Don't rely on her to look up names and phone numbers. Let her know that you are serious and you #1 don't want anyone to be bitten again #2 worry about what could happen next time. Let her know that you're looking out for her own good as well as your own and your son's!!!

[Catty1]

It might not hurt to call AC and let them know that this is one of many dogs these people have owned that have had problems, and some had to be PTS.

With that kind of track record - it's the people, not the dogs.

Poor puppies.

Read this thread and show it to your friend - if you think it will help: http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=141627