Thanks Catty and I agree. But telling somoeone they are responsible for getting their own helped to deal with past terrors or so on and telling someone to grow up and get over it are too totally different things. Like I said though just because someone has a horrendous past does not give them the right to commit an illegal act. But saying to anyone who has come from a horendous past that they should just grow up and deal with it is also not right. I wish it was that easy but for many it is an everyday strugle when they have suffered from inexcusable acts when they were younger.
Nicole