Will go to hospital for a long time (update #46)

**Randi** · 05-01-2008, 11:01 AM

Kirsten, I think it will do you good to go to a hospital/health resort - if you can stop worrying about Luna and Lily.

They will be fine I'm sure. Write a list to your mom about food, treats, water, litterbox, habits - everything you can think of, and make her promise to keep you updated.

I have just been away for a week, with Fister alone in my flat, and I have to admit I was a little worried at times, but my neighbor came in twice a day to feed him and cuddle, and when I came he was just fine, although very velcro!

I hope this will be the beginning of a better life for you. Try not to worry so much, you can't change things anyway, so you might as well let go and enjoy your treatment. You, Luna and Lily will survive this too!

Have a wonderful relaxed time!

(((hugs)))

**Catty1** · 05-01-2008, 11:34 AM

Just a note: Accepting something does not mean you have to like it.

"And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation-some fact of my life-unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation exactly the way it supposed to be at this moment. Nothing, absolutely nothing, happens in God´s world by mistake...unless I accept life completely on life´s terms, I cannot be happy. I need to concentrate not so much on what needs to be changed in the world as on what needs to be changed in me and in my attitudes.
"Shakespeare said, ´All the world´s a stage and all the men and women merely players.´...acceptance [has] taught me that there´s a bit of good in the worst of us and a bit of bad in the best of us; that we are all children of God and we each have a right to be here. When I complain about me or about you, I´m complaining about God´s handiwork. I am saying that I know better than God."

{{{hugs}}}

**lvpets2002** · 05-01-2008, 12:40 PM

Kirsten I am so sad to hear this of you being gone.. I know it would just tear me up so to be away from my babies.. Get Plenty of Rest & maybe you can come back home sooner.. Give the babies Bigg Huggss.. Yes do send us a address so we can all send you cards.. We Will Miss You.. (((((((( HUGGSS )))))))))

**jennielynn1970** · 05-01-2008, 08:03 PM

Oh Kirsten, I know it will be hard, but when you come home, and things will be better, it will all have been worth it.

Lots of thoughts and prayers going out to you and to Luna and Lily.

**kimlovescats** · 05-01-2008, 09:41 PM

Kirsten, I think the break and rest will do you so much good! You will feel so rested and full of energy when you get back to your girls! I know it's hard to think of leaving them right now, but they will be fine!

HUGS,
Kim