Oh my goodness, it's a good thing that you took Tuvok in to the emergency clinic! Somehow you'll get through this, Jen, financially and otherwise, although I know what a strain it is on you and a drain on your finances. I can sympathize w/that, believe me. I just started work on my enclosed patio and told my cats "No one is allowed to get sick, ya hear me?". As it turns out, I have water damage and what started out as a simple door and floor installation is now going to be a tear out and reconstruction. Too late to turn back now, just as you can't undo the car repair bills. Somehow we always find a way. Please know that I'm praying for you and Tuvok, that all will reverse itself and that his previous family will be found and happy to have him back home.