I so strongly agree with the others...i wish we could have met under different circumstanves...however,it really doesn't matter when you come to Pettalk...know that we all here understand the sense of loss that you are feeling right now....

there are a host of critters at The Bridge just waiting for your precious Jesse....my former Callico Kitty named Jessica is waiting there for Dear Jesse...and most recently, my Dear Ms.Puss will also be waiting...paws outstretched, yet arms balancing chips in one paw and dip in the other ...to welcome your Dear Jesse...there are many other Dear Souls...just from the Pet Talk Family...there waiting for her....so rest assured that she will have a wonderful reception.......
feel free to PM me if you want to chat...i have just gone through this also....August 20th

i also found alot of websites and books that are just for grieving pet owners...
Petloss.com
The Rainbow Bridge.com

there are many others...They are so helpful and understanding at this time for you......
Just know that you and your Dear Jesse are in our thoughts and prayers