I lost my Mum 14 years back. It was at least a year before I felt back on earth again. Time was the big factor. Now, sometimes it seems ages and ages ago since I last spoke to her; and other times, I am reaching for the phone to tell her something! I wish I had something most specific, more concrete, to share, but time was the big thing and we can't 'manage' that it just happens.

Best wishes
Sandie