Special thoughts and prayers are going out to you k9karen...sounds like your doing to much especially w/spine problems.please slow down so you don't end up hurting your spine more.you still have a long future and you don't want to be in pain for the rest of your life.
my back problems are so bad from doing to much in the past that i will never ever be pain free.if i didn't have mike helping me,i'd be in HUGE trouble.
Please,slow down...let the nurses do a lot of your Auntie's washes...and you can still feed her.