What restaurant is this so I can make sure I NEVER stop by there and tell others not to, either?

Because I certainly would not want to eat at a restaurant where countertops where food is prepared is left dirty, silverware not washed, and floors not mopped. They would have so many violations... personally if it were me as a customer, I would have called state on them so fast...

Don't worry, you did the right thing!! As a customer that attitude FROM THE MANAGER would have APPALLED me!