That's a problem, to be sure. After not having worked in the corporate world for quite some time, when I finally did get back into it, I had to take a job as an asst. manager at commission only pay to start. It was mandatory 12 hour days and I had a 1 1/2 hour commute each way. Then when I got home, I had a briefcase full of paper work to do. I was no youngster when I took the job and I lasted 3 weeks before I'd had enough. So I'm back to being self employed. Try a positive affirmation that you are finding the "perfect job w/perfect pay" and say it several times over each and every day. That way you'll be creating the vibe for the right job to come to you. Another affirmation that works for me is "All financial doors are now open to me; all financial channels are now free to me; the whole, wide world now says 'yes' to me". Give it a whirl; what have you got to lose?