I need honest opinions

[Medusa]

Hey, everybody makes mistakes, myself included. As I said, it was my gut instinct that he wasn't on the up and up. The whole thing came across as oily. And his silence since the incident speaks volumes. I should've had an email waiting for me when I got home, profusely apologizing. Nada. I wonder how many women felt "obligated" to buy him dinner, only later to realize they'd been had. When I was in a relationship, I treated often and I cooked a lot, too. But a first date? He should've been super prepared. Too bad a cop wasn't standing by. I could've pointed at this guy and said "He's driving w/out his license. On St. Patrick's Day." Ah well, he'll get his. The next woman might not be so charming, though. She may make a scene in public and it'd serve him right.

[RICHARD]

The next woman might not be so charming, though. She may make a scene in public and it'd serve him right.

I try to get my dates to pat me down in public. As a matter of fact, I ENCOURAGE IT..


Security reasons.....ya know?

[Medusa]

I try to get my dates to pat me down in public. As a matter of fact, I ENCOURAGE IT..


Security reasons.....ya know?

Hey, I'm not above that. As a matter of fact, I may make that a requirement from now on.

[lbaker]

I'm sorry Medusa I know you probably drove home angry and/or feeling rather chagrined but these last little comments with you and RICHARD had me laughing out loud If I ever go out on a date again (me? a date?) I'll have to use that line...

[kitten645]

I've done the online dating thing for a while and believe me there are some whack jobs out there. I ALWAYS go with my gut. I say this guy was looking for a freebie. In the reverse case, I'd be mortified and apologizing in anyway I could. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.
Claudia

[RICHARD]

Since most of you women go with your gut, why bother to go with a guy?

It's just one letter difference.
Your gut knows what you like.
Your gut always goes before the fall.
And your gut don't snore.

[Medusa]

[QUOTE=RICHARD]Since most of you women go with your gut, why bother to go with a guy?QUOTE]

I'm already there. I only met this guy because we had made plans to meet earlier and then my son got sick and I was too upset. After my son was out of the woods w/his health, I decided to honor our arrangement. It's things like this that made me not date for a year and half after my last relationship. People keep telling me that, if I don't find someone soon, I'll end up alone but I gotta tell ya, alone ain't so bad. It's nice to have a companion and to come home to someone who missed you and wants to know how your day was. And, of course, there's that "other" reason. But I've been divorced for 12 years and I'm used to living my life the way I want now. The only person I can probably live with is my ex-husband because I know him so well. I have more fun w/my girlfriends anyhow.