OK, catlady made this thread to clarify that her post was not intended to offend anyone. It is nice of her to do that. I can't see why people are still bickering. Talking about "tones", whether or not it sounds "trolly", and talking about pots and kettles is just bordering on ridiculous.

Since we are over the internet, we really dont know how someone is saying things, sometimes it is just taken wrong.
EXACTLY!

Things that are said in PM's should stay in PM's and not be posted in the forum. That would kind of defeat the purpose of PM's.

Take a step away from the computer and go hug your pets. There are bigger things to worry about.