Freedom - what I meant was, I am weaning them down to three feeds a day, as per the way you do it.

I don't add any food, by the way. If someone's dish is empty for the bedtime feed, they may get their extra 1/4 cup that fits in with the plan.

Again, I just want to get Cole down to a good weight, so will try this for a month. Free freeding will not help him do that. I want him to be healthy and around for a long time!